Why You Should Update Your Estate Plan After Divorce in Maryland

The divorce is finalized. The judgment is entered. And somewhere in a filing cabinet or a benefits portal, there’s a document that still says your former spouse gets everything. That gap between what Maryland law fixes automatically and what it leaves entirely untouched is where serious financial and custodial consequences live. Most people don’t discover it until the worst possible moment.

At Family Legal Advocacy Group, LLC, our approach to family law draws on disciplines beyond the legal, combining law, education, and psychology to help clients understand not just what the court order says, but what it doesn’t say. Estate planning after divorce is exactly the kind of question where that distinction matters most.

What Maryland Law Changes Automatically

Maryland does provide some automatic protection after an absolute divorce. Under Md. Code, Estates and Trusts § 4-105, an absolute divorce automatically revokes any will provision naming a former spouse as a beneficiary or personal representative. Only those provisions are revoked unless the will or divorce decree states otherwise. A will written during the marriage won’t hand assets to a former spouse simply because it was never updated.

A companion statute extends this protection to revocable trusts. Under Md. Code, Estates and Trusts § 14.5-604, a former spouse’s right to distributions from a settlor’s revocable trust, along with any trustee or advisor role they held, is automatically revoked upon absolute divorce. That rule applies only to divorce judgments entered on or after October 1, 2016, and only if the trust document, a court order, or a written agreement doesn’t state otherwise. For Columbia and Howard County residents, these protections take effect the day the Circuit Court for Howard County, located at 9250 Judicial Way in Ellicott City, enters the judgment of absolute divorce.

What Doesn’t Change: Beneficiary Designations & Retirement Accounts

The automatic revocation rules that apply to wills and revocable trusts don’t reach the financial instruments most people assume are covered. Maryland has no statute that automatically removes a former spouse as a beneficiary on life insurance policies, 401(k)s, IRAs, or payable-on-death and transfer-on-death accounts. Whatever name is on file with the institution on the day you die is the name that receives the money.

Federal law makes this even harder to work around for employer-sponsored retirement plans. Under ERISA, the beneficiary designation on file with the plan administrator controls, and state law can’t override it. The U.S. Supreme Court confirmed this in Egelhoff v. Egelhoff, holding that a Washington state revocation-on-divorce statute was preempted by ERISA because it impermissibly related to an employee benefit plan.

A Maryland case makes the stakes even clearer. In PaineWebber, Inc. v. East, Maryland’s Court of Special Appeals held that a separation agreement didn’t remove a former spouse as an IRA beneficiary. The agreement, by itself, didn’t operate as a waiver of the named beneficiary’s rights. Because the designation form had never been updated and accepted by the institution, the former spouse remained entitled to the account. That decision is the clearest illustration of why language in a settlement agreement and a signed change-of-beneficiary form are two entirely different things.

Powers of Attorney & Healthcare Directives

These documents present a different kind of risk. Under the Maryland General and Limited Power of Attorney Act, a spouse named as a financial agent loses that authority upon divorce. The power of attorney itself can remain valid for any other named agent, but a former spouse’s authority to manage finances ends with the marriage. A bank or brokerage has no automatic way of knowing a divorce occurred, however, and until the institution is formally notified and the record is updated, it may continue to honor instructions from a former spouse. Executing a new financial power of attorney that names a different agent is a cleaner and safer step than relying on the divorce judgment alone to communicate the change.

Healthcare advance directives carry a different rule entirely. A living will or advance medical directive naming a former spouse as a medical decision-maker isn’t automatically revoked by a Maryland divorce. That document continues to control your medical care unless and until you replace it. For many people, this is the most overlooked piece of estate planning after divorce.

Address These Issues at the Settlement Table, Not After

Most discussions of this topic treat estate planning as a post-divorce cleanup checklist. The smarter approach is to address these issues at the settlement table. A well-drafted marital settlement agreement can include language that directly executes beneficiary and trustee changes rather than merely authorizing a future one. That’s exactly the gap the PaineWebber court identified. Closing it in the agreement itself avoids revisiting these issues after the decree is entered.

One question that often surfaces during this conversation involves guardianship nominations. Parents sometimes assume that naming a trusted family member as guardian in a will protects their children if both spouses can’t care for them. But under Maryland law, the surviving biological or adoptive parent presumptively receives custody regardless of any guardianship nomination in the other parent’s will. A guardianship nomination operates alongside the custody outcome from the divorce, not in place of it. Understanding that distinction changes what parents actually need to plan for.

The documents Maryland doesn’t fix automatically tend to be the ones carrying the most financial and custodial weight. If you’re working through a divorce or reviewing your documents after one, we can help you address these questions as part of the process rather than after it concludes. Reach us at (410) 884-0400.